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			<title><![CDATA[It does work.]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=605</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 12:51:26 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I used to think people who met online where desperate or disfuncational, then I got divorced and reality hit a lonely spell. I used Loversmatch and and thought it was ok, but not what I was looking for. Then one day I got a simple message from a man half way across the country. I thought it couldent hurt to respond back. We now are planning a life together, he is moving to my hometown, looking at real estate and I couldent love him more. Thank you Loversmatch...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I used to think people who met online where desperate or disfuncational, then I got divorced and reality hit a lonely spell. I used Loversmatch and and thought it was ok, but not what I was looking for. Then one day I got a simple message from a man half way across the country. I thought it couldent hurt to respond back. We now are planning a life together, he is moving to my hometown, looking at real estate and I couldent love him more. Thank you Loversmatch...]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[A Big Thank you.]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=604</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 12:47:43 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Well my fiance and I are getting married 9/19/09 at 5:00 pm. It is so amazing how fast time flys. We have been together almost 2 years. I am so excited. My fiance is Mr. Romance. I owe everything to Loversmatch. Thank you so much.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Well my fiance and I are getting married 9/19/09 at 5:00 pm. It is so amazing how fast time flys. We have been together almost 2 years. I am so excited. My fiance is Mr. Romance. I owe everything to Loversmatch. Thank you so much.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Help.]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=603</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 12:43:17 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[i've noticed that american women have a really big issue about guys being circumcised, most of them insist that uncircumcised penises are ugly and smelly!<br />
this has me concerned because i'm not circumcised and i have no idea what percentage of uk guys are. so my question is.....<br />
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A) how many of you uk guys are circumcised<br />
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B) uk ladies does it really make a difference?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[i've noticed that american women have a really big issue about guys being circumcised, most of them insist that uncircumcised penises are ugly and smelly!<br />
this has me concerned because i'm not circumcised and i have no idea what percentage of uk guys are. so my question is.....<br />
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A) how many of you uk guys are circumcised<br />
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B) uk ladies does it really make a difference?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Double standard.]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 12:40:31 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Some men like a womans butt or shapely legs. <br />
But it seems that men get upset when a woman states that she is attracted to a mans large penis. Why is that?<br />
and not all women are penis women but some are and as soon as this fact is mentioned it seems that the men label us women as shallow and out only for sex or immature.<br />
I for one know that ( to some degree) physical attraction and looks are important to both people but for the relationship to be strong and grow together there has to be companionship, honesty, loyalty, passion and friendship. <br />
Your thoughts gentlemen??]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Some men like a womans butt or shapely legs. <br />
But it seems that men get upset when a woman states that she is attracted to a mans large penis. Why is that?<br />
and not all women are penis women but some are and as soon as this fact is mentioned it seems that the men label us women as shallow and out only for sex or immature.<br />
I for one know that ( to some degree) physical attraction and looks are important to both people but for the relationship to be strong and grow together there has to be companionship, honesty, loyalty, passion and friendship. <br />
Your thoughts gentlemen??]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[????????????]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 12:34:44 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I have had a great time on here and met some great guys but none that I have fancied so far. <br />
<br />
In the last few months I met two guys and although I didnt fancy either of them, they both said they were happy to stay friends but now they both seem moody and aloof. I have not been intimate with either of them and really enjoy their company. <br />
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My question is....If a man and woman meet on a dating site do you think the expectations are higher and the rejection more personal than meeting say in a social setting or through friends? Just intersted in what you all have to say. xxx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I have had a great time on here and met some great guys but none that I have fancied so far. <br />
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In the last few months I met two guys and although I didnt fancy either of them, they both said they were happy to stay friends but now they both seem moody and aloof. I have not been intimate with either of them and really enjoy their company. <br />
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My question is....If a man and woman meet on a dating site do you think the expectations are higher and the rejection more personal than meeting say in a social setting or through friends? Just intersted in what you all have to say. xxx]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[tatoos.]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=599</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 12:29:05 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I am guessing they are much more accepted by the under 30 crowd, but what does the over 30 crowd think? I am guessing it is more like mine. I have never liked tats on a woman much and they all seem to be getting these cute little tats these days. To me this makes a woman look cheap, like a cigarette does when I see a gorgeous woman light up.<br />
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Any opinions here?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I am guessing they are much more accepted by the under 30 crowd, but what does the over 30 crowd think? I am guessing it is more like mine. I have never liked tats on a woman much and they all seem to be getting these cute little tats these days. To me this makes a woman look cheap, like a cigarette does when I see a gorgeous woman light up.<br />
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Any opinions here?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Mumbo Jumbo?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=598</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 12:27:20 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[It seems that now and again,we see an attractive, experienced 30 / 40 something, looking for a soulmate etc, that fills her profile entirely with the hottest dirtiest little description of what she expects of a guy, how he must be just like this and just like that, trendy bars etc.<br />
<br />
you get the idea. <br />
<br />
It seems that the profile is intended to make any ordinary guy get abit confused and heady and write something just as a revenge for being mentally molested because she is asking for it.<br />
<br />
I wonder if they intentionally make profiles that sound like 'PLAY WITH YOURSELF NOW' just because they can, weather they just want to stimulate as many guys as possible and get a completely rowdy disfunctional collection of replies.<br />
<br />
Maybe they dont realise at first, they are just oversexed because they have not had it properly in a while, and yet have to deal with the consequences of being too horny on a dating site, when actually what counts is finding someone with the same temperament.<br />
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have you noticed such profiles? are you one of them?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It seems that now and again,we see an attractive, experienced 30 / 40 something, looking for a soulmate etc, that fills her profile entirely with the hottest dirtiest little description of what she expects of a guy, how he must be just like this and just like that, trendy bars etc.<br />
<br />
you get the idea. <br />
<br />
It seems that the profile is intended to make any ordinary guy get abit confused and heady and write something just as a revenge for being mentally molested because she is asking for it.<br />
<br />
I wonder if they intentionally make profiles that sound like 'PLAY WITH YOURSELF NOW' just because they can, weather they just want to stimulate as many guys as possible and get a completely rowdy disfunctional collection of replies.<br />
<br />
Maybe they dont realise at first, they are just oversexed because they have not had it properly in a while, and yet have to deal with the consequences of being too horny on a dating site, when actually what counts is finding someone with the same temperament.<br />
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have you noticed such profiles? are you one of them?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Masturbation what's the deal?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=597</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 09:00:09 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I think i heard that guys enjoy seeing(OKAY, hearing too) girls masturbating.<br />
but i'm not sure if some guys don't like it???<br />
<br />
would you want to see ur girlfriend masturbating??<br />
and if yes, only with her hand, or dildo??<br />
if a girl uses dildo while masturbating, will it look weird??<br />
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UGH, what a question i have <img src="http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/images/smilies/sad.gif" style="vertical-align: middle;" border="0" alt="Sad" title="Sad" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I think i heard that guys enjoy seeing(OKAY, hearing too) girls masturbating.<br />
but i'm not sure if some guys don't like it???<br />
<br />
would you want to see ur girlfriend masturbating??<br />
and if yes, only with her hand, or dildo??<br />
if a girl uses dildo while masturbating, will it look weird??<br />
<br />
UGH, what a question i have <img src="http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/images/smilies/sad.gif" style="vertical-align: middle;" border="0" alt="Sad" title="Sad" />]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 08:57:34 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Gentlemen, please help me understand why so many young men seem to be interested in older ladies, whether to date or have sex? Some of my friends and I were discussing it the other day and it seems we all had different opinions! Is this a common fantasy among men...perhaps the "Mrs. Robinson" syndrome? I know some younger ladies like older men, but I don't think it's as common as younger men looking for the older woman. What, truly, is the attraction?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Gentlemen, please help me understand why so many young men seem to be interested in older ladies, whether to date or have sex? Some of my friends and I were discussing it the other day and it seems we all had different opinions! Is this a common fantasy among men...perhaps the "Mrs. Robinson" syndrome? I know some younger ladies like older men, but I don't think it's as common as younger men looking for the older woman. What, truly, is the attraction?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Have you ever climaxed while getting your partner off?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=595</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 08:55:18 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Personally there is nothing sexier in the world then giving my partner a BJ and him cumming, it is the sexiest thing in the entire world....in fact i almost cum when he does.<br />
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Can anyone else relate?<br />
<br />
While either in foreplay or oral do you cum when your partner does?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Personally there is nothing sexier in the world then giving my partner a BJ and him cumming, it is the sexiest thing in the entire world....in fact i almost cum when he does.<br />
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Can anyone else relate?<br />
<br />
While either in foreplay or oral do you cum when your partner does?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Define Kinky?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=594</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 08:51:45 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I suppose I'm one of those extremely open minded folks. Not that there aren't things I won't do or haven't tried and not liked so haven't repeated. I just think that whatever two (or more  ) folks do in the privacy of intimacy is their business and nothing to me is kinky unless one of the people doesn't want to do it.<br />
<br />
I don't ever judge people on what they do. I've read quite a few of the threads where people respond in uptight manners. I get that not everyone is open to many things but again I think it's whatever two people are comfortable with unless it's illegal. Some things are just simply WRONG like kiddie porn, beasteality or rape.<br />
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Anyways, what do YOU consider kinky? What do you like to do that you consider to be kinky and what do you think is simply to kinky to even try?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I suppose I'm one of those extremely open minded folks. Not that there aren't things I won't do or haven't tried and not liked so haven't repeated. I just think that whatever two (or more  ) folks do in the privacy of intimacy is their business and nothing to me is kinky unless one of the people doesn't want to do it.<br />
<br />
I don't ever judge people on what they do. I've read quite a few of the threads where people respond in uptight manners. I get that not everyone is open to many things but again I think it's whatever two people are comfortable with unless it's illegal. Some things are just simply WRONG like kiddie porn, beasteality or rape.<br />
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Anyways, what do YOU consider kinky? What do you like to do that you consider to be kinky and what do you think is simply to kinky to even try?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[What about GUYS performing oral sex?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=593</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 08:48:47 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[There are sooo many threads about girls giving guys oral sex - is it a deal breaker if they dont do it, do they swallow or spit, should they swallow, do they enjoy it. etc...<br />
<br />
NOTHING on the opposite topic though:<br />
<br />
so guys, do YOU all enjoy giving oral sex? are there actually guys who DONT do it? dont enjoy it? dont like to "swallow"? is it a deal breaker for the girls if they dont?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[There are sooo many threads about girls giving guys oral sex - is it a deal breaker if they dont do it, do they swallow or spit, should they swallow, do they enjoy it. etc...<br />
<br />
NOTHING on the opposite topic though:<br />
<br />
so guys, do YOU all enjoy giving oral sex? are there actually guys who DONT do it? dont enjoy it? dont like to "swallow"? is it a deal breaker for the girls if they dont?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[What is the deal here?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=592</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 08:37:00 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Last night, when I was out this guy sent me a drink. I was told who sent it, so I went over to thank him. I didn't even get the chance to say anything. Because he got up said " I didn't buy that for you" and walked away. So I went to the bar and asked if he was the right guy, and yes HE sent it to ME. I don't quite know what to make of it. Just wanting to know what everyone else thinks.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Last night, when I was out this guy sent me a drink. I was told who sent it, so I went over to thank him. I didn't even get the chance to say anything. Because he got up said " I didn't buy that for you" and walked away. So I went to the bar and asked if he was the right guy, and yes HE sent it to ME. I don't quite know what to make of it. Just wanting to know what everyone else thinks.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[How important is sex in a new relationship?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=591</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 08:31:23 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi All,<br />
<br />
Here is my question: how important is sex when you go on a date? Personally, I would rather get to know my partner first, hang out with him, share a lot (like go to a movie, go for a walk and hold his hands, have dinner with at our places or restaurants) and let grow the chemistry. Sex comes when we both feel it strongly and cannot wait anymore.<br />
<br />
Now with that said, I would really want to hear opinion from both men and women. There are a lot of good sense people here ( i have read a lot of threads), from different backgrounds, cultures and experiences. I grew up in a very different culture, and everytime a date talks about sex on first or second date, it just scares me away (please don`t be sarcastic as I am very sensitive).<br />
Thank you so much for your input.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi All,<br />
<br />
Here is my question: how important is sex when you go on a date? Personally, I would rather get to know my partner first, hang out with him, share a lot (like go to a movie, go for a walk and hold his hands, have dinner with at our places or restaurants) and let grow the chemistry. Sex comes when we both feel it strongly and cannot wait anymore.<br />
<br />
Now with that said, I would really want to hear opinion from both men and women. There are a lot of good sense people here ( i have read a lot of threads), from different backgrounds, cultures and experiences. I grew up in a very different culture, and everytime a date talks about sex on first or second date, it just scares me away (please don`t be sarcastic as I am very sensitive).<br />
Thank you so much for your input.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[A guy i had met on here.....Please Help me Understand :)]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=590</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 08:28:47 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I met this guy on here awhile back and was just curious if anyone could answer this for me or if i was just being naive about the whole situation.......<br />
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I met him on here about a month or so ago. We will say his name is Steve... Well Steve was 35, divorced, sterilized, and had 3 boys ( 14, 12, and 10) He had gotten out of a bad breakup a few months earlier and wasnt ready for anything serious... We started talking and we hit it off, things were great! I went to his place and met his oldest and we watched movies and he cooked dinner for us that day. Immediately after i left he texted my phone and told me how he was so excited that we had met and that i was lucky his boy was there cause he would have been all over me!! Well from there we would religiously text back and forth and didnt see each other as often as i would have liked but i would come see him at his work...(Again a 45 min drive to see him for maybe 20 min and i would go back home cause he works 10pm-8am) <br />
<br />
He then came to my house one evening after we had been dating for a couple weeks...he was all excited to have private time...and he asked if it would be appropriate to make love to me or if it was too soon??? I assuming i would be with this guy for longer than we were didnt hesistate <img src="http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/images/smilies/wink.gif" style="vertical-align: middle;" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /> I obliged and it was amazing...He was super excited about it as well, he was very touchy feely and lovey with me and everything was amazing <img src="http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/images/smilies/wink.gif" style="vertical-align: middle;" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /> He was Great!!! Then i usually text him in the morning good morning and he wouldnt respond until he got up in the afternoon...i understand that cause he was sleeping.....but soon i wouldnt get any texts from him til he was at work... Then one day Steve called and came over to watch a movie at my place....the whole movie his ex texted his phone and he would reply and show me what he was writing her...she was wanting to come see him at his house and he said he had company and was busy...but he replied to her everytime she texted him!!! So after we watched the movie i was wanting to get more cozy and he said it was too soon for him to stay over and that he wanted to take it slow....that he was scared cause he was falling in love with me so quickly....Well i understood and let him leave...then texted him the next day and nothing.....then i wouldnt hear from him for days and i would see him on here and would message him and he would read them but not reply?? I was confused?!?! How could something go from so well to shit in just a couple weeks?? All i could think of was What did I do?? Was it me? Was it him? Was he seeing someone else?? His excuse was that he was too busy with his boys and his job that he didnt have the time to text me back or call?? What do you think his deal was?? <br />
<br />
* I figure if you like someone well enough you will make time for them!!!!*]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I met this guy on here awhile back and was just curious if anyone could answer this for me or if i was just being naive about the whole situation.......<br />
<br />
I met him on here about a month or so ago. We will say his name is Steve... Well Steve was 35, divorced, sterilized, and had 3 boys ( 14, 12, and 10) He had gotten out of a bad breakup a few months earlier and wasnt ready for anything serious... We started talking and we hit it off, things were great! I went to his place and met his oldest and we watched movies and he cooked dinner for us that day. Immediately after i left he texted my phone and told me how he was so excited that we had met and that i was lucky his boy was there cause he would have been all over me!! Well from there we would religiously text back and forth and didnt see each other as often as i would have liked but i would come see him at his work...(Again a 45 min drive to see him for maybe 20 min and i would go back home cause he works 10pm-8am) <br />
<br />
He then came to my house one evening after we had been dating for a couple weeks...he was all excited to have private time...and he asked if it would be appropriate to make love to me or if it was too soon??? I assuming i would be with this guy for longer than we were didnt hesistate <img src="http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/images/smilies/wink.gif" style="vertical-align: middle;" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /> I obliged and it was amazing...He was super excited about it as well, he was very touchy feely and lovey with me and everything was amazing <img src="http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/images/smilies/wink.gif" style="vertical-align: middle;" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /> He was Great!!! Then i usually text him in the morning good morning and he wouldnt respond until he got up in the afternoon...i understand that cause he was sleeping.....but soon i wouldnt get any texts from him til he was at work... Then one day Steve called and came over to watch a movie at my place....the whole movie his ex texted his phone and he would reply and show me what he was writing her...she was wanting to come see him at his house and he said he had company and was busy...but he replied to her everytime she texted him!!! So after we watched the movie i was wanting to get more cozy and he said it was too soon for him to stay over and that he wanted to take it slow....that he was scared cause he was falling in love with me so quickly....Well i understood and let him leave...then texted him the next day and nothing.....then i wouldnt hear from him for days and i would see him on here and would message him and he would read them but not reply?? I was confused?!?! How could something go from so well to shit in just a couple weeks?? All i could think of was What did I do?? Was it me? Was it him? Was he seeing someone else?? His excuse was that he was too busy with his boys and his job that he didnt have the time to text me back or call?? What do you think his deal was?? <br />
<br />
* I figure if you like someone well enough you will make time for them!!!!*]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Why do men say they will call and then don't?]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 07:53:22 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Someone please explain this to me, I just don't understand. Right now there is this guy on here that I really like, we have chatted a few times, and he said he was going to message me later to exchange numbers and maybe we can get together later, then he doesn't show up online til 1:30 in the morning, and doesn't "seem" to see me. (this is tonight)<br />
What to do, what to do.... This is a problem with a lot of men, with regards to calling or messaging when they say they will. If he is not interested why not just say so, why go through all the flirting and long IM convo's just to leave me hanging???<br />
I don't want to keep messaging someone and feel like I am chasing them down, but I think maybe he is the type that only talks if you message first?<br />
HELP]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Someone please explain this to me, I just don't understand. Right now there is this guy on here that I really like, we have chatted a few times, and he said he was going to message me later to exchange numbers and maybe we can get together later, then he doesn't show up online til 1:30 in the morning, and doesn't "seem" to see me. (this is tonight)<br />
What to do, what to do.... This is a problem with a lot of men, with regards to calling or messaging when they say they will. If he is not interested why not just say so, why go through all the flirting and long IM convo's just to leave me hanging???<br />
I don't want to keep messaging someone and feel like I am chasing them down, but I think maybe he is the type that only talks if you message first?<br />
HELP]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Why does height matter so much to women?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=588</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 07:50:37 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I have been on this site for a while now, and not even once I have been contacted first. At the same time, for literarily hundreds of messages I have sent out, I have only received a few replies. Granted, I do indicate in my profile that I smoke but knowing that, I tend to message smokers as well. I don’t want this to turn into discussion about quality of my profile. I’m happy with my profile, and I’m not changing anything! However, since it was indicated to me that I’m “cute” from the few replies that I did receive, I can only assume that it is my height that is causing such low interest. Unless I’m just soooo cute that women feel intimidated to contact me. <br />
I try to write to women that are significantly shorter then me, so I would still be taller even if they were to wear high hills. Beside, a significant portion of women that I do get in touch with are looking to “hang out” or “friends” (totally don’t get it!?) <br />
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Hence again I pose this question, mostly to women, why is height so important?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I have been on this site for a while now, and not even once I have been contacted first. At the same time, for literarily hundreds of messages I have sent out, I have only received a few replies. Granted, I do indicate in my profile that I smoke but knowing that, I tend to message smokers as well. I don’t want this to turn into discussion about quality of my profile. I’m happy with my profile, and I’m not changing anything! However, since it was indicated to me that I’m “cute” from the few replies that I did receive, I can only assume that it is my height that is causing such low interest. Unless I’m just soooo cute that women feel intimidated to contact me. <br />
I try to write to women that are significantly shorter then me, so I would still be taller even if they were to wear high hills. Beside, a significant portion of women that I do get in touch with are looking to “hang out” or “friends” (totally don’t get it!?) <br />
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Hence again I pose this question, mostly to women, why is height so important?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[What is the most times you have orgasmed in one "session"????]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=587</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 11:31:03 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[hmmmmmmmmmm......by myself...12<br />
with a man...14..<br />
waitin for the record breaker!<br />
Ok people fess up....tell me i really wanna know!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[hmmmmmmmmmm......by myself...12<br />
with a man...14..<br />
waitin for the record breaker!<br />
Ok people fess up....tell me i really wanna know!]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Why does the guy always have to initiate the date and relationship? or at least most]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=586</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 11:28:59 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[When it comes to Romance, Dating, and Relationships, getting a boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. Why does the guy always or most of the time have to make the first move? Why does the guy always have to start the conversation and keep it going? Why does the guy always or most of the time have to start the friendship and seeing eachother process before moving into the boyfriend/girlfriend part? Why does the guy have to ask the girl out? Overall, why does the guy have to initiate everything in the beginning? I am sure it is not like this all the time, but still without a doubt most of the time it is still up to the guy, because I do know that times are changing, girls are starting to take the initiative more often than they did in the past, but still 90 to 95 percent of the time it is still the guy that makes the first move and initiates the date and relationship, the girl just has to approve of it or not. I wish both girls would take the initiative just as much as guys, like it would be better if we lived in an equal-gender, open-opportunity society. The reason why is because guys can be shy too, guys hate being rejected too, shyness hurts guys a lot more than it hurts shy girls, because a shy, quiet girl, can get a boyfriend a lot easier compared to a shy quiet guy who can get a girlfriend. Unfortuneately, since society expects us guys to be more assertive, this hurts the shy quiet guys a lot. Anyway, overall, why do most girls expect the guy to take the initiative?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[When it comes to Romance, Dating, and Relationships, getting a boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. Why does the guy always or most of the time have to make the first move? Why does the guy always have to start the conversation and keep it going? Why does the guy always or most of the time have to start the friendship and seeing eachother process before moving into the boyfriend/girlfriend part? Why does the guy have to ask the girl out? Overall, why does the guy have to initiate everything in the beginning? I am sure it is not like this all the time, but still without a doubt most of the time it is still up to the guy, because I do know that times are changing, girls are starting to take the initiative more often than they did in the past, but still 90 to 95 percent of the time it is still the guy that makes the first move and initiates the date and relationship, the girl just has to approve of it or not. I wish both girls would take the initiative just as much as guys, like it would be better if we lived in an equal-gender, open-opportunity society. The reason why is because guys can be shy too, guys hate being rejected too, shyness hurts guys a lot more than it hurts shy girls, because a shy, quiet girl, can get a boyfriend a lot easier compared to a shy quiet guy who can get a girlfriend. Unfortuneately, since society expects us guys to be more assertive, this hurts the shy quiet guys a lot. Anyway, overall, why do most girls expect the guy to take the initiative?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[womens expectations and shopping lists, OVER THE TOP]]></title>
			<link>http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=585</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 11:26:51 -0500</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[omg, i haved browsed 100,s of womens profiles, and even met a few, and its absolutely unbeleivable what so many of the women out there think they are going to find. They truly believe that there are handsome, tall, athletic, millionaires, sitting by there computers just waiting for there call, and when you talk to them, they are riddled with personal issues, have terrible personalities, 2,3 or more kids with issues that are still at home, etc. i could go on and on, but i think you get the drift, so for the most, and i mean most part, these sites,especially the free ones,because most women are extremely cheap, are a complete waste of time, and only serve to frustrate some really good guys that are overlooked in the bat of an eye, because of womens shallow hearts and minds, anyway good luck guys, you,ll need it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[omg, i haved browsed 100,s of womens profiles, and even met a few, and its absolutely unbeleivable what so many of the women out there think they are going to find. They truly believe that there are handsome, tall, athletic, millionaires, sitting by there computers just waiting for there call, and when you talk to them, they are riddled with personal issues, have terrible personalities, 2,3 or more kids with issues that are still at home, etc. i could go on and on, but i think you get the drift, so for the most, and i mean most part, these sites,especially the free ones,because most women are extremely cheap, are a complete waste of time, and only serve to frustrate some really good guys that are overlooked in the bat of an eye, because of womens shallow hearts and minds, anyway good luck guys, you,ll need it.]]></content:encoded>
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