http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/ Wed, 27 Aug 2008 18:23:56 -0500 MyBB http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=88 Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:58:44 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=88 http://www.moscow-affair.com]]> http://www.moscow-affair.com]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=87 Mon, 07 Jul 2008 14:50:42 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=87 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=86 Sun, 29 Jun 2008 15:04:07 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=86
If 2 people decide to be naked and horizontal, and neither has any issues with it, why do people, mainly women, think it's such an awful thing?

Sex is a physical thing. Hunger and thirst are as well. If you are hungry, you eat. If you are thirsty, you drink. Why is it taboo that if you are horny you have sex?

Sex and love are two completely different things. Do you have to have deep emotional feelings for someone to share something purely physical? Can anybody over the age of 40 really say that you had those deep emotional ties to everyone you have had sex with in your life?

I've been around for more than half a century. I know all about STDs, unwanted pregnancy, etc.... that's not the issue. Women in particular seem to place a HUGE amount of significance in sex, far more than the typical male does. I have read posts before, articles, etc... and it always seems to center around the women "giving her body to the man". Doesn't the man give HIS body to the woman as well? I mean, this IS a shared activity.

Anymore the popular militant female attitude is that every man who is interested in sex gets the label as "only after one thing". That implies that there are no women anywhere who are looking for first date sex and that is not necessarily true. Men are interested in many things. Sex is just one of them, and it's part of the natural progression of things as two people spend time together.

Now know that I am not talking about first date sex necessarily, but even having said that, if both people agree, why is it a stigma that if first date sex happens, it's the man's "fault"?

Isn't life too short to deny ourselves pleasure over some stale societal mores? Protection, respect for each other, mutual consent and desire.... those are mores too.]]>
If 2 people decide to be naked and horizontal, and neither has any issues with it, why do people, mainly women, think it's such an awful thing?

Sex is a physical thing. Hunger and thirst are as well. If you are hungry, you eat. If you are thirsty, you drink. Why is it taboo that if you are horny you have sex?

Sex and love are two completely different things. Do you have to have deep emotional feelings for someone to share something purely physical? Can anybody over the age of 40 really say that you had those deep emotional ties to everyone you have had sex with in your life?

I've been around for more than half a century. I know all about STDs, unwanted pregnancy, etc.... that's not the issue. Women in particular seem to place a HUGE amount of significance in sex, far more than the typical male does. I have read posts before, articles, etc... and it always seems to center around the women "giving her body to the man". Doesn't the man give HIS body to the woman as well? I mean, this IS a shared activity.

Anymore the popular militant female attitude is that every man who is interested in sex gets the label as "only after one thing". That implies that there are no women anywhere who are looking for first date sex and that is not necessarily true. Men are interested in many things. Sex is just one of them, and it's part of the natural progression of things as two people spend time together.

Now know that I am not talking about first date sex necessarily, but even having said that, if both people agree, why is it a stigma that if first date sex happens, it's the man's "fault"?

Isn't life too short to deny ourselves pleasure over some stale societal mores? Protection, respect for each other, mutual consent and desire.... those are mores too.]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=85 Sun, 29 Jun 2008 14:49:47 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=85 It really does make it more "pleasureable" for both parties if we dont have to worry about a tree around your trunk !!!!]]> It really does make it more "pleasureable" for both parties if we dont have to worry about a tree around your trunk !!!!]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=84 Sun, 29 Jun 2008 14:35:35 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=84 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=83 Sun, 29 Jun 2008 14:30:21 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=83 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=82 Sun, 08 Jun 2008 11:02:34 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=82
Please do tell, as if it is a learnable trait I would like to acquire the information to share with my partner and tell him what needs to be done!! It would be a great 40th birthday gift in my opinion!!]]>
Please do tell, as if it is a learnable trait I would like to acquire the information to share with my partner and tell him what needs to be done!! It would be a great 40th birthday gift in my opinion!!]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=81 Sun, 08 Jun 2008 10:51:48 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=81 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=80 Sun, 08 Jun 2008 10:48:08 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=80
Tacky or just selling yourself?

What kind of assumptions does it plant in your head?

Might be a lame question but I was curious...]]>
Tacky or just selling yourself?

What kind of assumptions does it plant in your head?

Might be a lame question but I was curious...]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=79 Sun, 08 Jun 2008 10:45:33 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=79 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=78 Sat, 19 Apr 2008 12:54:44 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=78 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=77 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 23:18:14 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=77
ALWAYS have your bank verify the check before releasing funds (they can call the supposed issuing bank), or have them hold the funds until the check has cleared.

Yet another is that you're contacted about some inheritance from an unknown relative, etc. That you are contacted by email rather than regular or certified mail is an immediate cause for suspicion.]]>
ALWAYS have your bank verify the check before releasing funds (they can call the supposed issuing bank), or have them hold the funds until the check has cleared.

Yet another is that you're contacted about some inheritance from an unknown relative, etc. That you are contacted by email rather than regular or certified mail is an immediate cause for suspicion.]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=76 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 23:11:54 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=76
The first guy claimed he lost his wife and kid in hurricane Katerina
The second, his wife left him for another man and then he met a black woman who took him to Nigeria for a business deal, and ran off with all his money.
The third, lost his wife to breast cancer and he is stuck there with his daughter and needs help cashing a Postal Money Order to get the cash so he can get back to the states.

What the hell. Getting lied to by guys in the US is bad enough, now they are coming out of the wood work from Nigeria! I just wonder if guys are being scammed the same.]]>
The first guy claimed he lost his wife and kid in hurricane Katerina
The second, his wife left him for another man and then he met a black woman who took him to Nigeria for a business deal, and ran off with all his money.
The third, lost his wife to breast cancer and he is stuck there with his daughter and needs help cashing a Postal Money Order to get the cash so he can get back to the states.

What the hell. Getting lied to by guys in the US is bad enough, now they are coming out of the wood work from Nigeria! I just wonder if guys are being scammed the same.]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=75 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 23:08:40 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=75 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=74 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 23:02:47 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=74 i get an email to say how handsome i am from a 32 yr old exquisite looking brunette (on another single site) and i am thinking: hang on this ain't right i normally don't even get a response let alone some1 telling me this!!!
luckily for me i have the anonymous email address and start chatting. something is telling me this just don't add up.
i then think well what is there to lose so i email the SA police and obtain the what not to do list and continue chatting. we chatted for about 7 days on and off and forwarded profile to who ran the site
well wouldn't you know it (it) thinkin nigerian scam merchant is getting all loving and all that other tripe you just don't believe from a chat..
then it decides its coming down under for a visit but is $500 short of the airfare.. Nice try..
Tell them that i am but a poor man even though i have food etc i have no money..
i then asked surely she could find the money somewhere on the streets of nigeria...
well that was the end of that chat... be warned be careful..or be fleeced]]> i get an email to say how handsome i am from a 32 yr old exquisite looking brunette (on another single site) and i am thinking: hang on this ain't right i normally don't even get a response let alone some1 telling me this!!!
luckily for me i have the anonymous email address and start chatting. something is telling me this just don't add up.
i then think well what is there to lose so i email the SA police and obtain the what not to do list and continue chatting. we chatted for about 7 days on and off and forwarded profile to who ran the site
well wouldn't you know it (it) thinkin nigerian scam merchant is getting all loving and all that other tripe you just don't believe from a chat..
then it decides its coming down under for a visit but is $500 short of the airfare.. Nice try..
Tell them that i am but a poor man even though i have food etc i have no money..
i then asked surely she could find the money somewhere on the streets of nigeria...
well that was the end of that chat... be warned be careful..or be fleeced]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=73 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 22:54:51 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=73 I think a man over 50...is not the same man as over 30...or 40.
He is sophisticated and probably he has huge experience of life...
I wonder...it is hard or easy to seduce him?What practical method to use?]]> I think a man over 50...is not the same man as over 30...or 40.
He is sophisticated and probably he has huge experience of life...
I wonder...it is hard or easy to seduce him?What practical method to use?]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=72 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 13:04:25 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=72 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=71 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 12:54:28 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=71
I find that I don't fit in to the bar scene. I have almost no friends in the area. Currently, I'm doing freelance work by telecommuting from my home, so I don't have any coworkers.

People are often telling me that the best way to get over my ex-wife is to begin dating again. How do I go about doing this? I feel past my prime, and far from being what anybody's looking for. To be honest, I feel like I'm destined to be alone the rest of my life, but I realize that's just my depression talking.

Any advice for returning to the dating scene?]]>
I find that I don't fit in to the bar scene. I have almost no friends in the area. Currently, I'm doing freelance work by telecommuting from my home, so I don't have any coworkers.

People are often telling me that the best way to get over my ex-wife is to begin dating again. How do I go about doing this? I feel past my prime, and far from being what anybody's looking for. To be honest, I feel like I'm destined to be alone the rest of my life, but I realize that's just my depression talking.

Any advice for returning to the dating scene?]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=70 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 12:48:56 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=70
When is the right time to say "I love you"?

In a new relationship, when is the right first time? In an ongoing relationship, when are good times to reiterate it?

I'm sure most of you have heard the story of the elderly couple: One day, the wife asks her husband, "Do you love me?", to which the husband replies, "I told you I do when we married 40 years ago; I'll let you know if things change." Surely this is an extreme case, but when is the right time?

Who likes to say "I love you"/"I love you, too" before hanging up the phone? Should this be reserved for the engaged and/or married? (By the way, ladies, this almost always provides a great opportunity for guys to ridicule other guys, though usually in good spirit.)

Is it creepy or reassuring for a guy to say it before, during, or after sex, a meal, or favors? (I'll hope there are no guys that say it only after getting something.)

When and how often do you like to hear it?]]>
When is the right time to say "I love you"?

In a new relationship, when is the right first time? In an ongoing relationship, when are good times to reiterate it?

I'm sure most of you have heard the story of the elderly couple: One day, the wife asks her husband, "Do you love me?", to which the husband replies, "I told you I do when we married 40 years ago; I'll let you know if things change." Surely this is an extreme case, but when is the right time?

Who likes to say "I love you"/"I love you, too" before hanging up the phone? Should this be reserved for the engaged and/or married? (By the way, ladies, this almost always provides a great opportunity for guys to ridicule other guys, though usually in good spirit.)

Is it creepy or reassuring for a guy to say it before, during, or after sex, a meal, or favors? (I'll hope there are no guys that say it only after getting something.)

When and how often do you like to hear it?]]> http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=69 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 12:39:07 -0500 http://www.loversmatch.biz/forum/myBB/showthread.php?tid=69